Tonight I learned my Gram is getting worse, possibly even had a stroke tonight (we will find out after test results are in tomorrow). We are a very small family (essentially Gram, me, my two sons and my Spinster Aunt, my father (her son) passed away when I was 15). I am going to go up and see her tomorrow after work. Her mind has been steadily failing for the past few years, but her body has always been in fantastic shape. She's in her early 80's and could run circles around most 55-60 year olds. It comes from a lifetime of pampering and healthy living.