Gram has always had few friends, always the independent distrustful soul, she never saw the need. She also has never been the type of woman to join elderly organizations, finding the people less than interesting. She has always relied on her self and her ability to go wherever the whim served her. She is going to have to make some serious adjustments now, we all are. As I said it's for the best, but nevertheless pains me to see her cry and look so much like a helpless child.
(his 23rd bday at my mother's in 2002)
We lived together for 3 years (2000-2003) but don't speak anymore, it was kind of a rough break up and he very much resents me on many levels because of the hurtful things that occurred between us. I'm still trying to get him to come get his 6 boxes of personal possessions out of my cubby space downstairs here. There were 10 originally but the pipes burst last year in the old house and half of his stuff was ruined. I've only seen him twice since we split, in a bar downtown. He still harbors a grudge or something and felt it was venting time. Hope he's happy wherever he is and whatever he's doing.
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ok this post is getting depressing I need a laugh..
I used to do this theme thing called
CRANK CALL FRIDAY
where I would upload a comedy call and for some reason I've been laxed of late so today I will start again. This one is from The Touchtone Terrorists, one of my favorite teams (next to The Jerkey Boys) they have been featured on Howard Stern and Crank Yankers. In this call an inebriated woman calls for customer service only to be pushed around from one rude representative to another. It's definitely worth a listen, she is priceless....
Save The Drama for your Mama...
(click above to listen, right click to save)
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I didn't listen to your Crank call...just not in a mood to be funny today. MIGHT come back later though.
peace and thanks for what you ahve done.
SO i understand what the deterioration can be like. It's truly heart breaking. The best you can do is be there for her, no matter what, cause you know she'd do the same for you. And I know you will.
HUGS
So sorry you have to live through something so hard! You handle it allwith such grace though! With a father like you, your boys will be amazing men! Boho hugs and kisses coming your way my friend!
I loved the call. I agree that my favorite part was "Save your drama for your mama." Other than that, "eat your dick", I have to admit that she doesn't have the most fluid curses. But maybe that's a good thing.
The ex is cute - just goes to show that it takes more than cute to make a relationship work...
feeling kind of sad,
Daniel
As for gramma, you are a good kid, hanging out with her.....I dont have a solution though....maybe hire someone to take her shopping etc? She'll be pissed at you though! LOL
It's even more important now you spend as much time with your Gram as you can.
I needed the laughs today! Thanks Bello this was one of my favourites! xox
Anyway, that's a very poignant post about your grandmother. My dad's mother passed away a few years ago, and the last couple of years she went from being a fiercely independent woman to a to a progressively feeble person both mentally and physically. As her dementia set in it was difficult, but we learned to find the humor in some of the situations and the things the said, and to appreciate the time we had with her.
Best wishes,
Jeremy
"He just took out right in front of me" - she said
"But grandma, the bus was parked, turned off and noone was in it" - we said.