Friday, April 28, 2006
3...2....1...KABOOOM
Last night, at about 8something PM
my ex-wife found this place while searching google for
"Congamond Lakes Southwick".
Not surprising as this was our mutual hometown.
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While I have never really talked too much about her here, she did make two comments and in a quick gut reaction I deleted my blog entirely. There were a couple reasons for this, primarily because my day to day life during the week is of no concern to her, and well in her typical vindictive style (which these aforementioned comments clearly illustrate) she decided to step in and "defend" herself and set the record straight , two sides to every story etc. Her name has never been mentioned directly and well the truth is the truth, she just enjoys putting her own spin on it. The second and most important thing that I considered was the whole HNT (Half-Nekkid Thursday) thing and how it might be perceived to someone unfamiliar with blogging. I've been growing uncomfortable doing it lately (as I mentioned a week ago) and well that's over with at this point. The most I ever showed was a bit of underwear anyway It was a harmless expressive "fun" routine a gazillion of us took part in weekly, but which to be honest really conflicted with my blog content. I am glad I don't feel compelled to do it anymore.
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ya know the more I think about this the more pointless it becomes. I am (have already) removing the whole discussion over her comments. This thing is turning hurtful and negative.
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Laters :)
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take good care!and email me if there are any problem!
your ex sounds like a real bitch. and it's totally not clear why she thinks you're pale. you're rather swarthy, my friend :)
I hate it that you deleted everything as there was some great stuff in your posts. I hope you still blog. i think you are a great person and a great dad and nothing she said changed anything you already said. I have read all your posts AND remember those 2 and trust me when I say you have been much nicer than I have concerning your X-wife.
Hang in there. Call me if you need to talk.
I'm still here...a friend.
Keep blogging!
you have your reasons for deleting your blog, and you have my support for that. after all, the most important priority is your self first.
i hope this wouldn't be the end to your blogging though.
I've wondered what would happen if my ex came across mine. I think he would find that I have grown a great deal and in spite of the hurt he put me through, done well for myself. Sometimes I almost hope he does find it. Anyway...take care of you first.
I hope you continue blogging. Yours were always of great interest for me to read. But if you can't, I understand your reasons.
Hang in there, love ya, man.
It all sucks. Im upset cause I wont be able to read about you on here, but mate.. I am so thankful that I got to "meet" you through this. Noone or anything can ever take that away.
You have touched my life in ways that might seem impossible, but always know that I am here for you and will always ALWAYS be your mate.
I love you. Talk with you soon.
BIG BIG BIG HUGS!!
xoxoxox
I'm so sorry to hear of your troubles with your ex. I was married once, in a former life, and I know how the most innocent and unintentional things can become a catalyst for a firestorm from Hell. I was fortunate in that we didn't have children, that complicates it terribly. You sound like you're holding up through it all. I just want to hold you until you feel better. I like your blog, and hope you can continue with it. You know, it could be a really cool opportunity to completely start it over all new.
love,
DEL
Hopefully you will still post here.
Onanite